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Social Services – Federal/State/Local/Non-profit

Have You Ever Served In The Military?

One question can make a big difference…

Support Those Who Serve By:

  • Engaging reluctant veteran clients in acknowledging needs for support.
  • Meeting a military family's unique needs.
  • Coordinating services between military and civilian providers.

Why Ask The Question:

Whether in a non-profit or a government agency, human service providers encounter service members, veterans, and military families, but they might not know it. Veterans do not always identify themselves. They can be proud and stoic, and tend to be more comfortable helping others than asking for help themselves – even when they need support. Military life can impact an individual or family in many ways that affect their access to different programs, services, and benefits. The best way to identify service members, veterans, and military families is to ASK!

Ask The Question

When you are working with a new client applying for services, ask, "Have you or a family member ever served in the military?"

When The Answer Is "YES", you may consider thanking them for their service. You may also then be able to increase your understanding of their challenges and assist them in accessing the programs and services they need by asking further questions. This will also help you to:

  • Build rapport and demonstrate interest and cultural competency
  • Link to any needed military and veteran resources and referrals, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify any mental health, physical and/or medical issues related to service experience that are impacting access to services and benefits
  • Identify potential sources of income and assess financial stability
  • Identify individual and family supports and resources
  • Address perceived barriers to seeking support and services

Read a vignette about how Social Services providers can make a big difference!

Following are some questions that could be asked in the context of gathering information for more effective referrals and services. Pay attention to non-verbal cues, and show respect, curiosity, and empathy. Also be aware that responsiveness and effective follow-up are critical to building trust and rapport.

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  • Build rapport with the parent and child and demonstrate interest and cultural competency
  • Identify family supports and resources as well as needs for support not yet met
  • Identify any deployment-related stressors on the child and family as well as any related behavioral, emotional, social, and academic implications for the child
  • Explore deployment and reintegration challenges
  • Identify any deployment-related stressors on the child and family as well as any related behavioral, emotional, social, and academic implications for the child
  • Explore deployment and reintegration challenges
  • Link to any needed military and veteran resources and benefits, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify family supports and resources as well as needs for support not yet met
  • Link to any needed military and veteran resources and benefits, including both VA and non-VA programs
  • Identify family supports and resources as well as needs for support not yet met
  • Address perceived barriers to the child or parent(s) in seeking support

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